Cita-cita

Since we're small, people around us always ask, "What's ur cita-cita?"... "Bila besaq nanti nak jadi apa?"... "nak gheja apa?"...

And we'll answer, "I want to be a pilot"... "Aku nak jadi polis...leh tangkap orang"... "My cita-cita is to be a doctor"...

Those are some famous answers...most children want to be doctors, policemen, bussinessmen, pilots, scientists, and teachers. Do they really know what's the jobs are about?

I never heard any children said that they want to be stylists, writers, interior designers, carpenters...bla...bla... They always said doctors, scientists, etc.. Why?? Because that's not their own cita-cita...that's their parents...

Parents always want the best for their children..no parents want the worst..Is there any parents that want their children to be a smoker?? drugs addicted?? thief?? serial-killer?? NO WAY!!!

But sometimes parents' expectation is too high..tinggi sangat..sampai kena naik roket baru sampai...Is it rite to have such a high expectations?? Is it good for the children mentally n emotionally?? It depends..

Parents should know tahap kemampuan anak masing2. Not all their children are geniuses OR extraordinary..some just ordinary..normal..besa-besa jer..BUT NEVER STUPID!! They can't expect all their children 'll be doctors, juruterbangs, scientists.. Don't give false dreams to ur anak-anak, k..

Is cita-cita is really that important??!! For me, it's not. Some people have high cita-cita, while some have low.. But then, after getting SPM results, Matriculations results, STPM's..all become upside down.. They not getting what they hope for. Some get better chances, n some get worse chances, while some struggling to get even a chance for their future..

For me, it's all depends on our rezeki..cita-cita is just our target along with our parents..like me, I never achieve my own cita-cita..but hopefully I can achieve my parents'...amin...